How To Make Your Girlfriend Like You Again If She Is Loosing Interest
HERE IS WHAT I WILL SHOW YOU IN THIS POST
In this post I’m going to show you how to rekindle the interest of a girl who, liked you before, but is loosing interest in you now.
What I will be showing you is plain simple psychology and can work on both a guy and a girl. That is, if a girl who you are loosing interest in uses this on you – it would work too (And vice versa).
Now. Let’s be clear about this. The secrets I am about to show you will not work on a girl if she NEVER liked you before
What do I mean?
I will make it clearer.
I will describe some warning signs that your girlfriend might lose interest in you and also a few ways to make her happy again. Guys can use these techniques successfully, but first they need to understand what is happening when their girlfriend starts losing interest. If you know this, then you are going to be able to fix the problem before it completely goes out of control.
Signs That Your Girlfriend Is Losing Interest
1. She stops talking about the future with you and starts trying to change your life.
If she is showing less interest in what happens after 5 years from now, then this is a sign. She might be thinking that you are not going to be around in 5 years from now. If she loves you, then one thing she should never do is try and change how you live your life.
2. Less time together
If she starts asking for less time with you then there is also something wrong. There will be an occasion when she will not be able to get hold of you, but what is important is that she doesn’t want to any more. If you can see less and less of one another every time – then this isn’t a good sign.
3. She talks differently about past boyfriends
If your girlfriend talks about her ex-boyfriends with nostalgia, then she is clearly missing the relationship. If you were a good boyfriend to her and now you are not – then this will make her unhappy.
ONLY USE THIS STRATEGY IF…
…the girl in question had shown you interest in the past.
That is; when you two started dating
– She had been calling you
– Telling you how much she misses you
– Telling you how much she loves you
But now she doesn’t do any of that again.
IF YOU HAD BEEN MALTREATING HER, Then maybe that is the problem. Never maltreat a woman, it’s wrong…
If after you two started dating, you had been caring to her.
– You had told her how much you loved her.
– You’ve always called her up to ask of her well being.
– You had always spent on her, and have been a realiable shoulder for her.
AND STILL SHE LOST INTEREST IN YOU, then this strategy is for you….but before I show you the strategy, let me first tell you why she lost interest in you.
HERE IS WHY SHE LOST INTEREST IN YOU
It’s not because she is a bad person, don’t blame the poor girl. The fault is entirely yours. The reason she lost interest in you is because:
You became too predictable and too boring.
Check am out na….
If person dey always call you everyday to ask you about your day.
Always keep saying that they love you everyday
Always keep telling you that they love you. always doing the same type of hanging out, always always doing the same thing over and over again – why she no go lose interest. Even if na you sef. It’s like watching one movie over and over again.
When it comes to relationships a girl expects you to lead the way, but when the way you always lead is the boring path, she will dump you and move over to the next interesting dude.
In my next post – I will explain how to make your relationship exciting so a girl would always thank her stars she is dating you.
But for now:
THE STRATEGY FOR GETTING BACK A GIRL YOU ARE LOOSING.
This strategy follows 3 steps. To use it, you have to follow the steps the way I will list them here.
#Step 1: Get A Bait For Her.
To do this, what you have to do is to find ANOTHER GIRL you will be using to get YOUR GIRLFRIEND jealous. You don’t have to be close to this girl, all you need is to be on a talking terms with her. She might be an acquittance, a colleague, a classmate or just a friend.
But here is the thing; no matter what let that girl be more good looking that your girlfriend. if their level of looks is equal, then she shouldhave more dress sense than your babe.
If your babe fine pass am and dresses better than her then this won’t work. (If you’ve been following my article by now you would know how to get any girl you want to become JUST friends with you)
#Step 2: Use The “Birthday Trick” On Her:
After getting the “bait girl”. Then it’s time to kick up step two.
How do you do this?
Casually tell your girlfriend that there is this female friend of yours whose birthday is coming up soon and that you want to surprise her with a gift. Then ask your girlfriend to, from a female point of view, suggest the type of gift that a girl would go crazy about.
This should be casual…
Get her suggestions, thank her and end the discussion…
#Step 3: Play The Social Media Card:
Two days later, if this new girl has a birthday, fine. But if she doesn’t – no wahala. On the day of the “Fictional birthday” tell the female friend that you want to “show her off to the world”.
And that you will advertise her on your social media accounts…you can even jokingly tell her that you want the guys on your social media account to trip for her and that she should make sure she “chows” any of them wey fall mugu.
She would feel flattered, if you tease her well she would agree (I’ve explained how to tease girls in my other posts)
When she agrees…
Scatter her best picture on all your social media accounts and keep it there for a long time (Maybe for days); Facebook profile picture, watsapp dp, bbm dp – everywhere.
The facebook’s one will draw comments from your guys.
If any of them asks – na your babe? Don’t give a direct answer, you could just say: ‘Lol. You too dey ask nonsense questions, guy.”
This will draw your girlfriend’s attention by now and she will start “taking notice”.
#Step 4: Drop Gists On Your Babe:
To do this, whenever you call your girlfriend or chat with her – start telling her about how “the female friend” took you out today to watch a new movie. Then go on to tell her about the movies. Next tell her about some other things you did together with this new babe. Tell her the new babe got you a gift recently. As in, hype the female friend whenever the opportunity comes up.
Do this subtly, don’t make it obvious that you are trying to get her jealous. Just drop the stories like you will drop normal gists.
#Step 5: START PULL BACK.
This is where you start acting like you are loosing interest in this girlfriend. stop telling her you love her, stop telling her you miss her, call her less often, put up the new girl’s pictures more often on your social media accounts, change it as much as you want.
Then watch what will happen.
Her reactions will wow you.
But still, the most important thing is not bringing back an ex – the most important thing is knowing how to keep a girl interested in you for a like time so she won’t have to even think of leaving you in the first place
In pages 28 – 30 of my eBook, The Bang Rule, I explained What you must do if you want to keep a woman interested in you FOREVER (This is THE KEY to having a long-term relationship with a woman) To get the eBook today,Click here now