WHY GIVING A GIRL TOO MUCH ATTENTION NEVER MAKES HER FALL IN LOVE
Alright, i am going to get a bit personal here.
I know; my articles are a bit controversial. I know that most things i say are not the usual conventional dating advice you hear all the time. I know that some of the things i reveal here gets a lot of people angry.
But the bottom line is this; they work: hundreds of guys who already use them can attest to this – Before you fight these articles, go out, practice them, then if they don’t work – come back and tell me they didn’t work and i will fully apologize for feeding you wrong information.
With that out of the way; lets begin.
GIVING A GIRL ATTENTION – DOES IT WORK OR NOT?
First; what do i mean by “attention” here:
here are some examples:
– Calling a girl all the time
– Paying her compliments anytime the opportunity arises
– Sending her love texts like your father owns telecom companies in six countries.
– Doing things for her and running errands for her (some guys do this, trust me)
– Buying her loads and loads of gifts (Father Christmas)
Now the thing is this; girls love all these things – as a matter of fact, when you are in a relationship all the above can spice up the relationship.
But when you are still trying to get a girl these very same things i just listed up there can backfire when you do them in a wrong way.
Stay with me; i will make this clearer. showing a girl attention is like kerosine – when you pour in a little at a time into a burning firewood – it is fine. BUT when you get a full cup of kerosine and empty it on that same firewood; you have a problem.
When you shower loads and loads of attention on a girl; it is not romantic bro – it is a sign that tells her: “babe, i am obsessed with you”
Have you ever heard a girl say: “I can’t stop thinking of this guy, he calls me 20 times a day”. See, there is a reason why the people you like never like you back: it is not coincidence; this is pure basic psychology 101
A GIRL CAN NEVER BE INTO A GUY THAT IS OBSESSED WITH HER and when you shower her with all those praises, calls, attention, gifts you are making her see you as a Mr. obsessed of Africa. Most girls will tell you they like it, but everybody knows that they will say they like a girl to treat them in some ways but when you treat them in that same way they say they want to be treated – they still joke with you.
Most times when a guy showers a girl with all these kind of attention what they (the guys) think is:
– She is so fine, if i don”t shower her with attention another guy will take her from me
– She likes it, i will keep showing her how crazy i am about her.
– It’s by money; if i keep buying her things she will like me.
– This is how to get a girl, that is what most girls say – so let me shower her with attention
Guy, this is real life. What happens in movies rarely happen in real life, bro.
Funny thing is that while you are bombarding a girl with all these attention she is also wondering why she doesn’t like you “in that way”. When a girl meets a sensitive, caring, attention giving guy they think things like:
– He is such a nice, caring sweet guy – why don’t i like him enough to date him.
– He is always there whenever i want him, why don’t i feel like dating him.
– Let me keep him around, maybe with time i will start to like him.
– I don’t want to hurt him, let me just be nice with him. But the thing is i just don’t feel “it” for him.
– He is just a friend, he is nice but i can’t date him – i can’t bring myself to like him that way.
True enough, girls end up dating this type of guys but the fact is this; it is very RARE and most times when they do date the guy it is usually out of pity and not because they really like him as a boyfriend.
Here is psychology 101: “We don’t like anything that is easy to have. When we get something we loose interest in that thing”
Showing a girl too much attention sends her the signal that “she already has you”.
I know; it is not easy to hold back – the more you don’t know how she feels about you, the more you chase her, the more she acts cold around – and the more you want her.
BUT HERE IS THE HARD PROVEN TRUTH: If you keep showering her with loads of attention, she will run away from you and go and find a more challenging guy. A guy who knows “whats up”. A guy who is not as easy as you. A real Man who is in control.
Study all the girl you have been showering attention and chasing in the past one year: Can’t you see how they keep giving you signals that they like you, that you are a sweet guy BUT they just don’t feel it for you. You are a nice guy but they can’t date you 9i’m sure a girl has told you this even)
Can’t you see how very pretty girls keep complaining that the guys they like don’t give them attention BUT you, fine boy like you, gives her the same attention she is making noise about and STILL she doesn’t want you. Have you ever asked yourself Why almost EVERY girl complains that the guys they like don’t give them enough attention. Have you ever wondered why they keep sticking to the guy even though he is not giving them enough attention that they want. Have you ever wondered if this is just coincidence or the way their brains are wired
PLAIN SIMPLE PSYCHOLOGY: human beings like what they don’t have.
I know, a lot of people will come in here and say i have generalized but, the fact is this, this is simple plain proven science that i use myself to get classy pretty rich girls to take interest in me, this is the same science that over a hundred guys who read my articles use and still achieve massive success with the girls they like.
So since giving a girl too much attention doesn’t work, what then works – little attention?
Nah, that too can backfire if you don’t know how to trigger interest in girls. Have you wondered why players get more girls than other guys? it is because they know how to press a girls button and make her crazy for them.
In my e-book: “The Bang Rule…Ultimate Guild Of Seduction For Nigerian Guys”, i went into details to explain this and the exact step by step secrets to use and get the girl you are interested in to be interested in you. In the book you will learn scientific psychology secrets you can use to turn the table around and make a girl like you for who you are and not because she likes your pocket.
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